I grew up thinking fish only lived a year or two because ALL the people I knew that had fish, kept them in tiny bowls!

Most of them were fancy goldfish. Of course as a little kid I therefore accepted keeping MY goldfish in a bowl, although even at THAT AGE I felt there was something bad with this, wondering how he could possibly be happy always going around in that closet! Since I was at the age when you believe everything your parents say is true, so when they would tell me goldfish are happy in bowls I somewhat tried to make it seem ok in my mind. Little kids are brought up to see fish as decorations and low maintenance, so most learn to see them as disposable and unimportant... and then grow up thinking this way. When I bought my first fist Beta I believed what everyone around told me... and what the petsmart people told me: "they are unexpensive, need no more than a .5 gallon, Beta pellets and room temp water...


WHAT A JOKE!!!
I think there are a lot of people out there who actually trully care about their fish, but the crappy misinformation they get keeps them from knowing how to really care for it. Or they simply don't know how to observe closely their fish. Now my sweet royal blue crowntail is happily blowing bubble nests in a 5 gallon, with a few large amano shrimp tankmates, a heater, filter, plants, frozen brine shrimps and freeze-dried bloodworms!

Inexpensive my ass LOL! Heck it winded up costing me well over a 100$, and its not like I bought too much stuff or useless crap either! Ah well, I never regreted buying him all of that stuff, and he is the healthiest Beta I have ever seen in live!

He is so active and full of surprises now!
We can't really blame people for ignorance... I guess... but it kills me how people are not only ignorant but also don't give a dam as well! My roomates both bought a rose Danio... which they each kept in a container of..... 1 LITRE!!!!!!!

The worst part is that they are both BIOLOGY students at university!!!

The container each had a ball of java moss which took most of the space, there was big (low quality rusting) gravel in the bottom and the water was an inch from the top... so NOT EVEN 1 litre of water!!!!

They just did not care and even when told the fish requirements they did not care nor bothered to do a thing!

They kept the Danios in there for months! I still don't get how the fish managed to survive but they are freakin hardy indeed! I inherited the fish when school ended (cause they knew they could not bring it back in plane to their places) and I gave the poor things to another friend with a bigger tank because I only had my 5 gal with my Beta in it!

They are such morrons!!!

Barely ever changed the water too!! One of the girls wants to get a puffer next year ....

I'll make sure that this will NEVER EVER happen!
I don't even know a person who actually cares about their fish... or know how to take care of them! Even my mother made me regret getting her a Beta fish when I discovered it had fin rot and she plainly said "I'm not paying a 20$ medication for a 7$ fish!"


. I guess that sums up my interior question of "does she care about the fish or not?"...... She keeps on complaining about the bloodworms she finds disgusting (she is such a whimp my mom!), so, knowing her, before I moved out I went through all the closets and took away all of the old flake foods and goldfish food that had been in there for ages... I'm pretty sure she would of fed those to him instead!
