I am not married, but I think it's weird to have joint accounts. I've earned that money, so it is "My Money". A wife better have a job and earn her way, she is not a child to be taken care of. Also, it would be weird (for me) to ask wife /girlfriend to use my own money if we had a joint account.My wife makes more than me but we share our money. I'm a big spender so it's kind of good in a way. Now my brother n laws both have separate accts and it's so weird because for them it's my money not yours. I feel that's very selfish when your married and have kids!
I had a co-worked who called his wife in front of me to ask her if he can buy concert tickets))) What a loser))) And he was the one making all the money!!!!