Official Off Topic Discussion Thread #1

[Warborg]

its not a decision

Oh please..... What is Love? It's an emotion. What is an emotion? It's a behavior. How does one get a behavior? it's something they learned or were taught.... and they made the decision to follow it.

20 years ago I became obsessed over this girl. Everyone kept saying just forget her. I refused for several years. It did finally happen though. I wasn't born to be obsessed over her. It was a choice(a bad one) I made.

 

[krichardson]

20 years ago I became obsessed over this girl. Everyone kept saying just forget her. I refused for several years. It did finally happen though. I wasn't born to be obsessed over her. It was a choice(a bad one) I made.

A bad one,borg?

 

[jonah h2o]

ok, think about it this way...

you are born (if you're heterosexual) liking girls, once you're older right? but if you're homosexual than you are not you like people of the same sex. its science

 

[Warborg]

ok, think about it this way...

you are born (if you're heterosexual) liking girls, once you're older right? but if you're homosexual than you are not you like people of the same sex. its science

There is no science behind it. People are freely making decisions to love a certain type of person. To add to my personal experience. For the said 20 years until now, I've preferred asians... but again, I wasn't born that way. It was a free choice I made.

 

[Warborg]

A bad one,borg?

It didn't end well....a lot of self suffering that I put myself though

 

[jonah h2o]

doing something similar but I know it probably going to happen. but so what if we dream sometimes

^ definitely

 

[Hendre]

Apparently it is quite natural for some people to feel different, some as early as a few years old. Maybe gender is different but that's how sexuality works...

 

[jonah h2o]

one of my friends kids is transgender.

 

[Hendre]

Apparently it is quite natural for some people to feel different, some as early as a few years old. Maybe gender is different but that's how sexuality works...

Then again, I would say for most physical sports compete as what you are biologically. It's massively unfair if a 'guy' can compete in Womans sports

 

[Warborg]

doing something similar but I know it probably going to happen. but so what if we dream sometimes

^ definitely

If you mean becoming obsessed. Be careful....it can get messy. It's never a good way for a relationship. Seemed I always found ways to keep it going.