TELL ME WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS STORY

[Miguel]

they would be who those would come up with a fit for tv ending like the one you suggested. my point was that just doesnt happen in the real world.

Ok. Because in your real world, where people assume that someone being in someones room is a bandit, adults resort to bashing teen's on the head with pipes.

Because in your real world, a grown up cannot, at 4 in the morning, understand, in seconds, what in reality is going on?

Because in your real world, an adult does not need to know better than to make a stupid situation much worse.

Ok.

 

[DISCIPLE]

Ok. Because in your real world, where people assume that someone being in someones room is a bandit, adults resort to bashing teen's on the head with pipes.

Because in your real world, a grown up cannot, at 4 in the morning, understand, in seconds, what in reality is going on?

Because in your real world, an adult does not need to know better than to make a stupid situation much worse.

Ok.

at 4 am and it isnt normal and im startled from bed id treat him as a criminal. because in my real world this happens:
The 19-year-old undergraduate from Santa Barbara, California, disappeared while visiting friends at the University of Nevada, Reno.
She was last seen sleeping on the living room sofa near an unlocked glass door of a friend's off-campus apartment after a night of partying.
Her friends awoke the next morning to find Denison missing, a small blood stain on her pillow. Her shoes, purse and cell phone were left behind.
Three weeks later, her body was found partially covered in snow in a nearby field. She'd been sexually assaulted and strangled.

"Because in your real world, a grown up cannot, at 4 in the morning, understand, in seconds, what in reality is going on?"
like i said earlier he was awakened from sleep by strange noises in his house. im sure he didnt think like a monday morning qb but he was defending his daughter and home. what if that hadnt been her bf ???? then what another horrific ending. kids wrong period. dad might have hit a kid but i bet he didnt know it was a kid at 1st. like i said earlier he should be glad all dad had was a pipe.

 

[Red Devil]

i may have to end this thread... so please do not be too explicit in your vocabulary... and tone it down. thanks

 

[dirtyblacksocks]

Well...my last post was deleted for being too explicit, hopefully this one's a little more tame.

There are a lot of underlying factors that people are just making assumptions upon. Perhaps the father knew who this boy was - perhaps the kid was a drug addict, the fact that he'd sneak into a man's house to do what he was doing shows that he doesn't have the kind of integrity I would want to see in a man doing that with my child.

Just because he didn't know about the boyfriend for a year doesn't mean he wasn't letting his daughter date - maybe he just didn't think that this young man in particular was fit for dating.

That being said - if you aren't man enough to shake the hand of the father who's daughter you plan on having a relationship with - who has sacrificed more of his time, effort, and emotion than you can ever possibly fathom until you have your own children, then you are not man enough to be having sex.

If the PC world we lived in weren't so backwards to begin with - this guy would be praised for what he did. Instead he gets the shaft, and why? Because he is doing what he knows is best for his child, his investment, his legacy.

Sentenced to jail or not, I'll bet you money that father's only regret is that a judge could be so blind, and I'll bet that kid won't be sneaking into his daughter's room anymore.

 

[DISCIPLE]

Well...my last post was deleted for being too explicit, hopefully this one's a little more tame.

There are a lot of underlying factors that people are just making assumptions upon. Perhaps the father knew who this boy was - perhaps the kid was a drug addict, the fact that he'd sneak into a man's house to do what he was doing shows that he doesn't have the kind of integrity I would want to see in a man doing that with my child.

Just because he didn't know about the boyfriend for a year doesn't mean he wasn't letting his daughter date - maybe he just didn't think that this young man in particular was fit for dating.

That being said - if you aren't man enough to shake the hand of the father who's daughter you plan on having a relationship with - who has sacrificed more of his time, effort, and emotion than you can ever possibly fathom until you have your own children, then you are not man enough to be having sex.

If the PC world we lived in weren't so backwards to begin with - this guy would be praised for what he did. Instead he gets the shaft, and why? Because he is doing what he knows is best for his child, his investment, his legacy.

Sentenced to jail or not, I'll bet you money that father's only regret is that a judge could be so blind, and I'll bet that kid won't be sneaking into his daughter's room anymore.

amen and well put.

 

[125blackfire]

very possibly the father could have thought his daughter was being raped. it would not be hard too defend that in court. as far as being thrown into jail. even if i disagree with him going too jail i must say the police did a good thing bringing him too jail, because he attacked someone with a weapon; if it where his hands maybe a different story. but ya i would of done same thing.

 

[PATSFAN69]

I'll bet that kid won't be sneaking into his daughter's room anymore.

I'll take that bet!!! If the kid didn't have any respect before this and he didn't get any type of discipline and saw the father got punished. He doesn't think he is in the wrong. Now with the father out of the house, I'll bet this kid is with the daughter right now

And I'm sure you would think a little different if that was your son that got his head bashed in being the protective father that you are. I know if a grown man put his hands or weapon on my child for any reason, he is going to have a lot more to deal with than jail time.

 

[Miguel]

And I'm sure you would think a little different if that was your son that got his head bashed in being the protective father that you are. I know if a grown man put his hands or weapon on my child for any reason, he is going to have a lot more to deal with than jail time.

Exactly.That is what I was saying all along.

Come on, 2 seconds are more than enough for a grown up Man to see what was happening. He had to turn the lights on, for chrissakes! He approached the teen to hit him with the pipe.

He saw a teenager frolicking around with his daughter. ( Now I am not condoning this )

Can anyone in its right mind think that when the pipe hit the head he was still thinking it was a thug in the process of stealing? Or of raping?

He fully over reacted. He could have killed the kid. He disrespected his daughter. ( whose behaviour, again, I am not condoning )

He piled **** on top of ****.

Now I am not saying that , given the right ( better, the wrong ) circumstances, I would not do the same.

But I surely am not saying that it would be the right thing to do.

 

[dirtyblacksocks]

Haha if a grown adult put stitches in my son's head I'd probably be serving a life sentence.

I raise my kid to have a bit more integrity than that, though - or at least I hope I am!

If that guys daughter has any respect for him she won't be having this boyfriend over to her house right now - while her dad is in jail because of her irresponsible actions.

While a pipe to the skull may not have been the most rationale action - at 4 in the morning when you're still fuzzy from waking up things take a different turn. There are actually laws that state you cannot be charged for murder if you kill a man within 15 seconds of waking up due to Vietnam Vets flipping out on their wives after bad dreams and from PTSD.

Like I said, there is a lot of stuff this article didn't bother going into. Nobody - including myself - should try to make assumptions about the history behind this kid, his girlfriend, and her father. I sincerely doubt most of us would have calmly said "OK, time to leave" in this situation, though. Had it been our daughter.

EDIT: As far as what the man was charged with - it's how our system works. You have to abide by the rules. But that still doesn't make the dad wrong for what he did. Had the judge just let him walk this case would be cited for future issue's with different circumstances. I still think he did the right thing.

 

[bigspizz]

Haha if a grown adult put stitches in my son's head I'd probably be serving a life sentence.

I raise my kid to have a bit more integrity than that, though - or at least I hope I am!

If that guys daughter has any respect for him she won't be having this boyfriend over to her house right now - while her dad is in jail because of her irresponsible actions.

While a pipe to the skull may not have been the most rationale action - at 4 in the morning when you're still fuzzy from waking up things take a different turn. There are actually laws that state you cannot be charged for murder if you kill a man within 15 seconds of waking up due to Vietnam Vets flipping out on their wives after bad dreams and from PTSD.

Like I said, there is a lot of stuff this article didn't bother going into. Nobody - including myself - should try to make assumptions about the history behind this kid, his girlfriend, and her father. I sincerely doubt most of us would have calmly said "OK, time to leave" in this situation, though. Had it been our daughter.

Please link me to this murder loop hole...lmfao...