Yea I took In what masked shadow said and thought well, life is rough so I’ll be rough too, I tried being as thorough as possible just saying if you do not do this then this will happen I thought If I gave her any other options then she’d find a keyhole in it so I left her with one option and yea there was a bad argument but I’m not just going to stand behind and watch the fish live in that condition knowing there’s a way to help them. I’m just happy that in the end we both apologized to each other and she finally came to her senses and realized, oh hey maybe my son who knows 5 years worth of aquarium and fish knowledge is right about my aquarium that clearly has a problem. Also my tank I’ve found to help with my anxiety, blood pressure and also my adhd surprisingly the tank does the one thing none of my meds can do and that’s clearing my mind so I can actually focus on a specific thing without ten million other thoughts popping to mind